THE HARD EDGE OR MR. NICE GUY?

There is actually a place for both. But, listen carefully here. You’ve all heard the expression “Nice guys finish last”? Well, not only is it true, but there’s a reason. Nice guys make good friends, and that’s just fine.

But, most women are not looking for friends. They are looking for mates. And, it is the hard edge that separates the mate from the friend. Now don’t get me wrong…..A tough guy can still be a “nice guy” but unless she has seen your hard edge, more likely than not, the nice guy image will be interpreted as weakness.

Nice and weak does not get a woman turned on and aroused. In order to ignite passion, you need some form of friction and keeping everything nice and easy doesn’t do it. You will hear me repeat over and over again to keep things off balance, to keep her guessing. Consider it a mating dance that keeps the interest alive and the juices flowing. Unfortunately, when it comes to “nice” most of us can take it or leave it. So, if you are a nice guy, make

sure you show her the hard edge first. Then she’ll appreciate (and maybe even fall in love with) your softer side and NEVER mistake it for weakness.