WHERE TO BEGIN? INCREMENTS

Always show her your undivided attention. Women are very much more aware of your behavior and the messages you are sending than you might think. 

They sense when you are distracted, uninterested, preoccupied, nervous. Nothing will make a woman feel more special than giving her your undivided attention in a room filled with unlimited competition.

Let her do most of the talking. Women, (much more so than men) not only need to, but, love to talk. They talk about everything. Their feelings, thoughts, ideas, theories, the people at the next table…..any and everything. 

So, when you let them do/direct the conversation, you are doing two things. First you are letting them talk…..which most women feel the need to do anyway, and second, by letting them talk and following their lead, they will believe that what they have to say is interesting to you. So you win on two scores.

Keep eye contact at all times. Keeping eye contact is super powerful. First of all, she will know that all your attention is on her which is very flattering.

And even though some women might be uneasy at first (don’t stare of course) because they are not used to this kind of attention, they will grow to like it very quickly and the feeling that they are more important to you than anything else going on in the room will foster the bond you are trying to achieve.

Never try to correct her, out do her or criticize her. I am not offering you this advice because she is always right or can out do you at any opportunity. The reason is because your goal is to make her love to be with you, to feel good about herself when she is with you. She is probably corrected, criticized and outdone everyday, and probably has been all her life. You are that special guy who walked into her life and is going to make her feel so terrific about

herself that she will miss and obsess about you whenever you aren’t around!